Some Things Are In Our Control
$3.50
Description
This sticker balances the tension between what we can and cannot affect. The quote is by Epictetus, a philosopher known for practical wisdom. The scale evokes equilibrium amidst life's imbalances.
Key details
- Size: 2.5 inches
- Material: vinyl
- Category: sticker
- Handmade: Yes
About this quote
Who said it
Epictetus (c. 50–135 CE) was born a slave in Phrygia and freed in adulthood. After being exiled from Rome under the emperor Domitian, he taught at Nicopolis on the Greek coast. He wrote nothing himself; his student Arrian transcribed his lectures as the Discourses and a short handbook called the Enchiridion. This line is the very first sentence of the Enchiridion — not a stray aphorism but the foundation stone of his entire system.
What it means
Stoics call this the dichotomy of control. In our power: opinion, intention, desire, aversion — what we do with our own minds. Not in our power: body, property, reputation, others' opinions — anything mediated through circumstance. Epictetus's diagnosis is austere: most human suffering comes from confusing these two categories — agonizing over what cannot be moved while neglecting what can. The remedy is to train effort and emotion onto the first list and let the second list go.
Why it endures
A second-century Greek sentence that now circulates as life-advice on Twitter, in therapy rooms, and in addiction recovery (the Serenity Prayer is a direct paraphrase). The diagnosis hasn't aged: most modern anxiety is generated by trying to control variables — others' opinions, the news cycle, the future — that cannot actually be controlled.
Source: Epictetus, Enchiridion 1.1 · Robin Hard, Discourses, Fragments, Handbook (Penguin) · read the original
Product Details
Epictetus' sentiment speaks to acceptance and agency. This sticker is for those navigating uncertainty, a reminder to focus on controllable aspects. The vintage aesthetic with its weighty scales symbolizes the gravity of choice and self-mastery.
FAQ
Is this sticker waterproof?
Most of our stickers are designed for everyday use. For best results, avoid long soaks and hand-wash surfaces when possible.
What surfaces does it stick to?
Smooth, clean surfaces work best: laptops, water bottles, notebooks, and phone cases.
How is it made?
Each design is handmade and curated by Shilpiworks with careful finishing for a clean, durable look.
How long do the stickers last?
Our vinyl stickers are made with durable, weather-resistant material and typically last 3-5 years on most surfaces with proper care.
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